can you tell i love thanksgiving?! it really is my favorite holiday because i love all thanksgiving food, being around my whole family and i love leftovers. thanksgiving is the big holiday in our family, where everyone makes it a point to be there. christmas is usually quiet so we all get v pumped for our thanksgiving dinner.
also we announced our pregnancy last year on thanksgiving so now it’ll always hold an even more special place in my heart. remember the video?
i teamed up with pier 1 imports to share a bunch of tips if you’re feeling a little overwhelmed about your first thanksgiving, because if you are hosting your first… you’re probably panicking already. and while i’m not an expert, i talked to my mom and my friend who hosts our annual friendsgiving for 20 people and got their tips!
you can plan your menu weeks ahead of time, and even buy your turkey and freeze it if you have the space. (fyi you want 1 – 1 1/2 lbs of turkey per person). speaking of which, consider limiting your guest list. the old pros can handle a party of 18 but for your first time, less people equals less food and less stress. you can show off your hosting abilities another time (maybe why friendsgiving started in the first place)
get as much done in advance as you can! some side dishes can be made days in advance and keep in the fridge or freezer, like casseroles, stuffing, potato dishes and cranberry sauce. and if not, you can also just get a head start on chopping everything. do as much as you can leading up the day of!
make a schedule
create a timeline for yourself, you can do it by setting alarms or just write one down to keep referring to, it will keep you on track the day of and remember what needs to go in the oven when, etc. start backwards with your turkey and decide what time you need it to be in the oven by, set times for anything that needs to get to room temperature or taken out of the freezer, and everything else that needs to be cooked/assembled/baked in the oven. once you have it all clearly scheduled, you’re way less likely to fall back or forget what needs to be done. crucial!
delegate and accept help
again, hosting thanksgiving is not easy! if someone offers to come over early and help, or bring a dessert or a side dish, say yes! unless of course, they want to cook something and you hate their cooking… then maybe you can say no. also i always have extra pretty serving dishes in case someone brings something on a platter i don’t like, you can quickly transfer to one that matches your table and another crisis averted!
set the table in advance
setting the table can be one of the first things you do the week of, plus it will help get you excited when you see your pretty table come together.
if you wanna make things really easy, opt for easy, non (or less) perishable centerpieces, such as a whole bunch of candles like i did, and use faux greenery (or forage for free)! gourds and pumpkins are another seasonal touch that you don’t have to worry about scrambling to go get flowers the day of.
pier 1 imports is the destination to find inspiration for entertaining. i love these gilded gold plates which are so special and so perfect for holiday dinners, and i paired them with these amber stemless wine glasses. all the products are available in store or on pier1.com. for the place cards, i just used some cute gift tags i had and tied them around my napkins.
label all your serving dishes
anytime i’m hosting a dinner party, i always label all of my serving ware prior with post-it notes so that i know which foods i’m going to serve on which platters. it helps create an idea of what things will look like before the meal is actually ready, and again keeps your organized! this will also help ensure no one helping out uses that old platter that totally doesn’t go with your tablescape vision.
shortcuts are a good thing
no one will judge you for buying a pie. in fact, the pie will probably be better, so don’t worry about judgement!
make simple appetizers and have wine ready
easy cheese plates, frozen appetizers, shrimp cocktail and things like that are super easy to setup quickly and have out for when your guests arrive. make sure they don’t give you any extra headache because no one is there for the appetizers. having bottles of wine ready to go will also keep you from stressing out to rush when your guests start arriving.
designate someone to host while you prep
and to truly make sure you’re keeping it cool while you’re finishing up the meal and guests are arriving, have your spouse/friend/sibling/whoever take over hosting duties to take the pressure off of you. the last thing you should be worried about is dealing with small talk!
while it might be the most stressful dinner party you’ve ever thrown, don’t forget what thanksgiving is about, be present and have fun! remember what matters, and that no one cares if the green beans are undercooked or the gravy is too thin.
dinner plates / salad plates / stemless wine glasses
large pillar candles / small pillar candles / faux pine garland
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you’ve seen our house a lot, but i really never show off our dining room much, and while its really not bad or anything, its just a pretty whatever corner of the great room that i never gave much thought. so i decided i wanted to give it some thought now. when we redid the kitchen, i was trying to figure out what kind of storage to add next to it, but thought that a tall buffet or sideboard would feel cramped. since its such a small space, it’s also really cramped with the couch and chair right next to it — so basically its cramped. so… we decided to do a built in nook instead. it’s been a project that has been on the back burner obvs, but i decided it would be a fun easy room to work on rn and i’m excited for it to be way more than basically just a table and chairs.
i’ve always loved dining nooks, and while kinda nervous that we will only have a nook which is pretty informal when you don’t have a formal dining room, i decided that doesn’t really matter. we always have our backyard for entertaining as well so i think it’ll work out fine.
we’re going to use two dressers from ikea, with drawers so that we have extra storage we’ll use for serving ware and need desperately now that arlo is going to need kitchen drawer space too. we talked to my contractor/carpenter about building something custom, but decided this was a way cheaper way to go. we’re going with one longer dresser and one shorter one, and then filling the corner with a box. i’m going to get cushions made to make it cozier than sitting on a dresser. i haven’t decided the fabric yet but i think we’re gonna go with an oatmeal colored, machine washable linen, and maybe i should scotch guard it…? i’m also gonna add some throw pillows.
we’re going to move the light over to be centered over the new table location, and i’ve been in love with this beauty for a long time, so i’m sooo excited for it. i’m going to be a little sad about saying goodbye to our big rattan pendant because i do still like it and it was the first thing we bought for our future house before even finding a house (we kept it in the bathtub along with all our wedding gifts we waited to open till we had our house).
i have always wanted cesca chairs, always. we had them in our kitchen as kids and as much as i asked if i could keep them, it never worked out and i didn’t want to ship them all the way from boston so i gave up on the idea. but now we’re getting some and i am so excited! i feel like they never go out of style (except i am a little worried that i’ll be bothered by the fact that they kinda match our rattan barstools and then i’ll want to get new barstools lol)
i’m also so excited that we’ll actually have the space for arlo’s high chair! he just started on solids and i can’t wait to have him sitting at the table with us someday. we have the most gorgeous high chair that goes perfectly with the rest of the space.
and even though you totally thought i’d get a white dining table, i decided a wood one would look better. because i’m totally unpredictable. (and because we have a white coffee table so i thought they’d like match maybe?)
unfortunately we’re gonna have to move the fig that we’ve now kept alive for a few years out of the bright corner, but i saw a photo recently of it from two years ago and it looks way shittier now so i don’t feel as sad about it. i think i might put some hanging plants up in the corner also.
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